When students go into college, they need to join in the group, because there is no way for them to live alone. They have new classmates and roommates. How to fit in the group is the main problem for them to solve. A successful student can handle it well.

当学生进入大学后他们需要融入集体，因为他们是不可能独自生活的。他们将有新的同学和室友。如何适应集体是要解决的首要问题。一个成功的学生可以把这些事情处理得很好。

To fit in the group, the students must have the collective consciousness. As most students are only child in the family, so they don’t know how to get along well with their roommates. They always notice themselves and ignore others’ feelings. But as they live in a dormitory, they need to realize these. Only in this way can make everybody live in a harmonious environment.

为了融入集体，学生必须要有集体意识。由于大多数学生是家里的独生子，所以他们并不懂如何与室友相处。他们总是以自己为中心而忽略了他人的感受。但当他们住在一个宿舍里面，他们就必须要顾及到他人的感受。只有这样才能让每个人都生活在一个和谐的环境。

To fit in a group, students also need to be honest. As many students live in a common surrounding, it is easy to have conflict, because different cultures happen among students from different regions. Then it is important to be honest and try to talk about the problem, or the conflict will bigger.

为了融入集体，学生还需要诚实。因为很多学生生活在一个共同的环境，所以很容易会产生冲突，因为文化地域的冲突。所以，处理这些问题的时候，诚实就显得很重要，如果他们能够试着谈谈，情况会有所好转，不然冲突会更大。

It is a big lesson for students to learn get along with others. The one who handles well are trend to be get successfully easily.

学会与他人相处对学生来说也是一门很重要的课程。处理得好的人会更容易取得成功。